Oh boy. Don’t we all harbor a secret hope that one day, we’ll find someone who will mend the cracks left by our childhood wounds? We dream of someone who will give us what we didn’t receive growing up, someone who will heal the lingering & ever present unmet...
Are you ready to strengthen your capacity to handle life’s challenges, while at the same time building deep, meaningful relationships? As a relationship and growth coach, I work with two transformative, neuroscience-based models that have been life-changing for me and...
As I reflect on the closing chapter of the year before stepping into the new one, I find it helpful to contemplate these two questions: Firstly, what is the challenge that I handled well in the past year? And then, what fueled my ability to do so? Perhaps, for you, it...
Over the last few writings, I have been talking about the developmental tasks we all accomplish as we grow from infants into adults. (You may read them here) These four components of development – Attachment, Boundaries, Integration, Mutuality –...
Hello, Fellow Journeyer! Last time, we discussed the power of internalization and how our lens shapes our experiences. Today, we’ll take a closer look at how our character structure develops using the tree as a metaphor. It will give us a framework that can help...
Hey there, friends! Grab your favorite cup of coffee or tea, and let’s dive into a topic that shapes the way we perceive ourselves and the world around us. Today, we’re going to talk about internalization and how our unique lens colors our experiences. So,...
